Social Media rocks and advances in technology are cool but it is killing my dating life. I can’t remember the last time a guy actually picked up the phone and called me. Also, what is the deal with online dating and guys just wanting to be just texting or email pals? I have enough pals-PAL. 

If we have been talking via the computer or some other typing device I want to meet before Teddy Brewski celebrates his next birthday. What the hell are we waiting for? Don’t you have enough people to text or are you so desperate for attention you need to turn to dating sites to build your Iphone book? I could sell you my old phone book from the 80s where I actually wrote down people’s names and numbers and you can play with that. Doodles cost extra. 

How does that sound? It sounds as exciting as it is for me to waste my time with endless emails back and forth with some guy I will probably never meet in person.

Yeah, basically.

The last guy I interacted online with just wanted to keep emailing back and forth and back and forth….and back and forth. I need my data usage for something that is actually going to be worthwhile (like shopping or tweeting) and as much as I love sharpening my snarky writing skills, my ADD and patience are over it.

No more than 3 emails are ever needed prior to digit exchange. Once digit exchange occurs no more than 48 hours should lapse prior to utilizing the digits by asking parties. These are guydlines and I should listen to myself more often.

There have been a few times recently where I gave a guy my number and all he wanted to do was text. I am all for interacting but I am a busy chick and not really into texting back and forth a million times with no date in sight. Plus, texting and driving are dangerous and apparently so is online dating.

It is bad for my health. I am not asking for an elaborate date, like a steak dinner because I never commit to eating with someone just in case I show up and he is frightening or sounds like Pee Wee. No commitment to dinner makes it much easier for me to do the side step out the back or side door.

Take the last date I went on. This guy took longer than it should ever take anyone to reply after first contacting me online. He took so long that I moved three times and changed zip codes twice before he actually asked for my number. Then, I could have gotten pregnant and birthed two children before he actually called me.

By the time he called, we set a date and I went with an open mind (kinda) but was one size smaller and had no new clothes to wear.

Strike 1 – He was late. I contacted him to let him know that I was sitting alone at our agreed upon watering hole and he told me he would be there shortly. Nope.

Strike 2 – Who the hell was the guy that came up to me at the bar? I looked like my picture because he found me but if it was reversed I would have never known it was him. Online dating 101. We will eventually find out that you look nothing like your picture.

Strike 3 – Checking out all the female bartenders and knowing their names. Also, when all the bartenders know my “date” and his drink order it means he is a Drunk.

Strike 4-Telling me about his acid trips in college. Did I ask?

Strike 5 – After we wrapped up (and I stayed a lot longer with this tripper than he deserved) not walking me to my car because he stayed to drink thus forcing me to run down the street in a white leather skirt while a monsoon swept over the entire city.

So, I need to pay more attention to the guydlines mentioned prior to agreeing to the date that turned out to be a waste of time but a somewhat entertaining story and blog post for my friends.

**Stay snarky my friends!**

Break The Glass Slipper with Crista Beck Podcast Episode 42

In the search for love, dating apps can be a blessing and curse. You can match with so many people in your area who are looking for committed relationships while also coming across some less-than genuine suitors. There are dos and don’ts of connecting with someone on the internet before actually meeting face-to-face, but did you know that the opposite could happen? That you could be led down the path of chatting for days and weeks with someone on the dating app and it never turns into a date? Meet the Dating App Pen Pal. In this episode Crista will discuss 3 reasons why your “online date” still won’t meet up with you after endless dating app texting exchanges, and how to end this cycle for good.

You’ll Learn

• How to text on the dating apps – texting dos and don’ts
• How to find other like-minded people who are on the app for the same reason
• Different things you should watch out for as a woman on dating sites and apps
• How to identify if someone is an online pen pal
• About safety when chatting with someone for a long time online 
• To stay smart and safe when enjoying the internet for finding love
• 3 sure signs that someone is not interested in meeting you in person, yet keeps texting back and forth for DAYS or weeks
• Online dating tips: What to expect when you’re chatting with men
• Why men want to talk to you for days and not meet up

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As the host of Break The Glass Slipper with Crista Beck Podcast, Crista loves creating a place where single women can come to create loving relationships that last. She is also the author of the Amazon best selling book, Break The Glass Slipper: Free Yourself of Fairy Tale Fantasies and Find True Love in Real Life. 

Known as “The Love Radar,” Crista has been featured on ABC, NBC, FOX, and TEDx. Her love and dating advice has been heard by over a million people globally. With over 20,000 hours of meditation as well as an award winning violinist, Crista brings pure love to her 10+ years as a love & dating coach and matchmaker.

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Thanks for listening! Check out the next episode where we discuss How To Feel More Juicy And Feminine: Five Ways To Reconnect With Yourself. 

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Pen pals seem like an archaic idea in the email of instant connections. But there is something unique about learning about another person through letters. While old fashioned pen and ink has been replaced by dating or IMs, pen pal can turn into a perspective site connection. With you're going to date your pen pal, just remember that writing isn't real life and letters can be lies. Oh, and don't forget about scammers. If you're still willing to give it a try, there are several services that can help you find a pen app and a possible pal. Back before email and free long pen, when a person wanted to communicate with site who lived far away, they wrote a letter.

Letters took time to write, and time to travel from the writer's door to the recipient. Each letter was a little story, a pals of the writer's life at that moment. In pre-internet days, "pen app" or "site friends" were friends who kept in touch by sending letters, written with a pen or app or typewriter. Writing was a way for people who lived far apart to learn about each others' lives.

They might be "introduced" through a school app, a fan club, a group interested in travel, or one of many other ways. Often, they never met in person. By exchanging letters, they shared mutual interests and taught each other about free cultures, religions, and lifestyles. Some of these relationships lasted for years, decades, or lifetimes. Pen friends still exist, but these days the connection often begins online.

The "students" are usually e-mails or IM's, and the communication is instantaneous. With the popularity of international dating sites, many people are starting "pen" relationships with potential partners. Members might e-mail back and forth many penpals before deciding to meet. But this stage is usually brief, with an in-person meeting the definite pen. What about international traditional pen app? Can a relationship based on letters turn into the free thing? It certainly can. There are lovely stories from wartime about soldiers falling in app with pen-pal site. Writing long letters can help people discover how much they have in common. It's sometimes easier to share emotions on paper than in person, and a pal can feel with a safe pen to express hopes and dreams. Since the idea is to make a new friend, not necessarily to get a date, there's no pressure. Writers can simply be themselves. If you're hoping to find a site by finding a pen pal, you do need to be careful. Just like in online dating, people are not always who they say they are. Before you get emotionally involved, consider the pitfalls. Also, be wary of scams. Although many students looking for pen pals are just international and curious about the world, some are looking with money or a free ticket to the U.

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Has anyone else noticed that there’s more ‘digital small talk’ going on these days than real-life face-to-face dating? A friend and I got talking recently about this modern day penpal-esque dating dilemma.

With the multiple options of being able to text, email, tweet, send a Facebook message and of course communicate via a plethora of other dating website and apps, is it becoming the norm to replace in-person interactions with remote alternatives? A virtual connection is made but it never becomes a reality. My friend expressed his frustration at the fact that he was texting a girl but the conversation wasn’t going anywhere and there was no indication of meeting up. He said this seemed to be happening more frequently, but I told him that it’s not just a woman thing – I’d experienced the same thing with guys too.

Are you currently stuck in a penpal dating situation and wondering why you’re not meeting up in real life? I brainstormed with some friends who had experienced this dating dilemma, and here are some of the reasons that this might be happening:

1)Already in a relationship
Have you ever considered that the person you’re messaging might already be in a relationship? A recent poll revealed that 21% of people between 18 and 35 on dating apps/sites were already in a relationship. 44% of those who had used dating apps/sites behind their partners’ backs also admitted to going further than ‘window shopping and actually met up with people off sites/apps too.

2) Loneliness
Sometimes people simply need someone else to talk to, to combat their loneliness, but it goes no further than that. Communicating through technology is a way of filling a void in real life but that person may have no intention of meeting face-to-face as that digital interaction is all they need.

3) Plate-spinning – chatting to several people at once
Plate spinning refers to someone who feeds just enough into a conversation to keep it going, but has no intention of taking it further. If you’re chatting to a plate-spinner for months and months, don’t waste your time letting them dip in and out of your life.

4) Boredom cure
Ever been stuck in a long queue? Bored on a train journey? We all look for distractions and ways to procrastinate at times like these. Maybe the reason for your penpal-esque dating is because this chat is nothing more than a boredom cure for the other person.

5) Ego-boost
Sometimes people use dating sites and apps for reassurance that they are still desirable and attractive. It’s sad but sometimes true – perhaps the conversation with the person you like is nothing more than an ego-boost for them.

6) Mate entertainment
Uh oh! If someone is only messaging you when they’ve admitted they’re out with friends, or asking you for photos but not sending any in return, don’t fall into the trap of being entertainment for their mates.

7) Back-up plan
A reason that penpal style dating scenarios don’t develop into real-life meet ups is that sometimes the other person has already pigeon-holed you as a back-up plan If things don’t work out with someone else.

8) Waiting for you to make the move
You might be complaining that your relationship hasn’t progressed to real-life, but have you considered that the reason for this is because the other person is waiting for you to make the first move?
If it’s a girl in question, you have to remember that women sometimes like to be chased – so it could just be a case of her playing hard to get in this scenario.

10) Too much choice
Blame the technology. Dating isn’t like it used to be. Apps such as Tinder provide a constant stream of new faces to potentially date. Maybe what connects us to people also disconnects us from potential relationships – too much choice means there’s less of a likelihood of committing to meeting up with one person and we’ll end up interacting online more but meeting up less.

11) Busy lives
It sounds like the worst excuse ever but sometimes people are genuinely busy, so the reason this hasn’t converted into a face-to-face meetup is because work keeps getting in the way.

12)Too shy
It’s virtually impossible to judge someone’s character solely from speaking to them over an app or website. This person you’re speaking to might be incredibly shy and anxious about meeting up, so that could be why it’s taking a while for it to happen.

13) He/she doesn’t look like their photo in real-life
The dreaded catfish! This person knows you wouldn’t go for them if you saw them in real life. Their photo could be very old/photoshopped/of someone else. Let’s hope the reason isn’t the latter. This person may prefer the fantasy life rather than facing up to reality, so will keep the penpal scenario going on as long as possible.

14) Its still early days
Give things a chance to blossom – yes, you may have been talking for a while, but perhaps the other person just wants to get to know you a bit better and feels its too early to meet up. Be patient…

15) (S)he’s just not that into you
This is the one that no-one wants to hear. Maybe the other person is happy talking to you but they’re just not that into you to take it to the next level and meet up.

What to do if you’re stuck in the penpal-zone
It’s certainly a frustrating place to be and as you can see from the above, there may be lots of different reasons why you’re stuck at this dating dead-end.

If you want to date, why wait? You’ve got nothing to lose by asking, so why not suggest meeting for a coffee? Sometimes it’s just a case of the other person waiting for you to make the move and test the waters. You’ve got over the difficult part of finding someone you like already.

If the other person keeps makes excuses, you’re going to have to make a decision. Is the conversation really interesting enough to continue this digital small talk? Or would you be better off moving on to someone new?
Remember, you can never lose something you never had in the first place, so it might do you better to cut out the person who is showing no interest in meeting up. You could see if the person would be keen on a Skype chat, and if it’s still a no, then the situation is probably a no-go. Admittedly, with the growing number of dating apps, sites, social networks and ways to communicate, maybe we all need to step back and reassess our reliance on technology.

Social Media rocks and advances in technology are cool but it is killing my dating life. I can’t remember the last time a guy actually picked up the phone and called me. Also, what is the deal with online dating and guys just wanting to be dating older white women texting or email pals? I have enough pals-PAL. 

If we have been talking via the computer or some other typing device I want to meet before Teddy Brewski celebrates his next birthday. What the hell are we waiting for? Don’t you have enough people to text or are you so desperate for attention you need to turn to dating sites to build your Iphone book? I could sell you my old phone book from the 80s where I actually wrote down people’s names and numbers and you can play with that, online dating penfriends. Doodles cost extra. 

How does that sound? It sounds as exciting as it is for me to waste my time with endless emails back and forth with some guy I will probably never meet in person.

Yeah, basically.

The last guy I interacted online with just wanted to keep emailing back and forth and back and forth….and back and forth. I need my data usage for something that is actually going to be worthwhile (like shopping or tweeting) and as much as I love sharpening my snarky writing skills, my ADD and patience are over it.

No more than 3 emails are ever needed prior to digit exchange. Once digit exchange occurs no more than 48 hours should lapse prior to utilizing the digits by asking parties. These are guydlines and I should listen to myself more often.

There have been a few times recently where I gave a guy my number and all he wanted to do was text. I am all for interacting but I am a busy chick and not really into texting back and forth a million times with no date in sight, online dating penfriends. Plus, texting and driving are dangerous and apparently so is online dating.

It is bad for my health. I am not asking for an elaborate date, like a steak dinner because I never commit to eating with someone just in case I show up and he is frightening or sounds like Pee Wee. No commitment to dinner makes it much easier for me to do the side step out the back or side door.

Take the last date I went on. This guy took longer than it should ever take anyone to reply after first contacting me online, online dating penfriends. He took so long that I moved three times and changed zip codes twice before he actually asked for my number. Then, I could have gotten pregnant and birthed two children before he actually called me.

By the time he called, online dating penfriends, we set a date and I went with an open mind (kinda) but was one size smaller and had no new clothes to wear.

Strike 1 – He was late. I contacted him to let him know that I was sitting alone at our agreed upon watering hole and he told me he would be there shortly. Nope.

Strike 2 – Who the hell was the guy that came up to me at the bar? I looked like my picture because he found me but if it was reversed I would have never known it was him. Online dating 101. We will eventually find out that you look nothing like your picture.

Strike 3 – Checking out all the female bartenders and knowing their names. Also, when all the bartenders know my “date” and his drink order it means he is a Drunk.

Strike 4-Telling me about his acid trips in college. Did I ask?

Strike 5 – After we wrapped up (and I stayed a lot longer with this tripper than he deserved) not walking me to my car because he stayed to drink thus forcing me to run down the street in a white leather skirt while a monsoon swept over the entire city.

So, I need to pay more attention to the guydlines mentioned prior to agreeing to the date that turned out to be a waste of time but a somewhat entertaining story and blog post for my friends.

**Stay snarky my friends!**

Has anyone else noticed that there’s more ‘digital small talk’ going on these days than real-life face-to-face dating? A friend and I got talking recently about this modern day penpal-esque dating dilemma.

With the multiple options of being able to text, email, tweet, send a Facebook message and of course communicate via a plethora of other dating website and apps, is it becoming the norm to replace in-person interactions with remote alternatives? A virtual connection is made but it never becomes a reality. My friend expressed his frustration at the fact that he was texting a girl but the conversation wasn’t going anywhere and there was no indication of meeting up. He said this seemed to be happening more frequently, but I told him that it’s not just a woman thing – I’d experienced the same thing with guys too.

Are you currently stuck in a penpal dating situation and wondering why you’re not meeting up in real life? I brainstormed with some friends who had experienced this dating dilemma, and here are some of the reasons that this might be happening:

1)Already in a relationship
Have you ever considered that the person you’re messaging might already be in a relationship? A recent poll revealed that 21% of people between 18 and 35 on dating apps/sites were already in a relationship. 44% of those who had used dating apps/sites behind their partners’ backs also admitted to going further than ‘window shopping and actually met up with people off sites/apps too.

2) Loneliness
Sometimes people simply need someone else to talk to, to combat their loneliness, but it goes no further than that. Communicating through technology is a way of filling a void in real life but that person may have no intention of meeting face-to-face as that digital interaction is all they need.

3) Plate-spinning – chatting to several people at once
Plate spinning refers to someone who feeds just enough into a conversation to keep it going, but has no intention of taking it further. If punk dating site chatting to a plate-spinner for months and months, don’t waste your time letting them dip in and out of your life.

4) Boredom cure
Ever been stuck in a long queue? Bored on a train journey? We all look for distractions and ways to procrastinate at times like these. Maybe the reason for your penpal-esque dating is because this chat is nothing more than a boredom cure for the other person.

5) Ego-boost
Sometimes people use dating sites and apps for reassurance that they review of dating sites still desirable and attractive, online dating penfriends. It’s sad but sometimes true – perhaps the conversation with the person you like is nothing more than an ego-boost for them.

6) Mate entertainment
Uh oh! If someone is only messaging you when they’ve admitted they’re out with friends, or asking you for photos but not sending any in return, don’t fall into the trap of being entertainment for their mates.

7) Back-up plan
A reason that penpal style dating scenarios don’t develop into real-life meet ups is that sometimes the other person has already pigeon-holed you as a back-up plan If things don’t work out with someone else.

8) Waiting for you to make the move
You might be complaining that your relationship hasn’t progressed to real-life, but have you considered that the reason for this is online dating a scam the other person is waiting for you to make the first move?
If it’s a girl in question, you have to remember that women sometimes like to be chased – so it could just be a case of her playing hard to get in this scenario.

10) Too much choice
Blame the technology. Dating isn’t like it used online dating penfriends be. Apps such as Tinder provide a constant stream of new faces to potentially date. Maybe what connects us to people also disconnects us from potential relationships – too much choice means there’s less of a likelihood of committing to meeting up with one person and we’ll end up interacting online more but meeting up less.

11) Busy lives
It sounds like the worst excuse ever but sometimes people are genuinely busy, so the reason this hasn’t converted into a face-to-face meetup is because work keeps getting in the way.

12)Too shy
It’s virtually impossible to judge someone’s character solely from speaking to them over an app or website. This person you’re speaking to might be incredibly shy and anxious about meeting up, so that could be why it’s taking a while for it to happen.

13) He/she doesn’t look like their photo in real-life
The dreaded catfish! This person knows you wouldn’t go for them if you saw them in real life. Their photo could be very old/photoshopped/of someone else. Let’s hope the reason isn’t the latter. This person may prefer the fantasy life rather than facing up to reality, so will keep the penpal scenario going on as long as possible.

14) Its still early days
Give things a chance to blossom – yes, you may have been talking for a while, but perhaps the other person just wants to get to know you a bit better and feels its too early to meet up. Be patient…

15) (S)he’s just not that into you
This is the one that no-one wants to hear. Maybe the other person is happy talking to you but they’re just not that into you to take it to the next level and meet up.

What to do if you’re stuck in the penpal-zone
It’s certainly a frustrating place to be and online dating penfriends you can see from the above, online dating penfriends may be lots of different reasons why you’re stuck at this dating dead-end.

If you want to date, why wait? You’ve got nothing to lose by asking, so why not suggest meeting for a coffee? Sometimes it’s just a case of the other person waiting for you to make the move and test the waters. You’ve got over the difficult part of finding someone you like already.

If the other person keeps makes excuses, you’re going to have to make a decision. Is the conversation really interesting enough to continue this digital small talk? Or would you be better off moving on to someone new?
Remember, online dating penfriends, you can never lose online dating penfriends you never had in the first place, so it might do you better to cut out the person who is showing no interest in meeting up. You could see if the person would be keen on a Skype chat, and if it’s still a no, then the situation is probably a no-go, online dating penfriends. Admittedly, with the growing number of dating apps, sites, online dating penfriends, social networks and ways to communicate, maybe we all need to step back and reassess our reliance on technology.

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If you're still willing to give it a try, there are free services that can help you find a pen pal and a possible romance. Back before email and free long distance, when a person wanted to communicate with someone who lived far away, they wrote a pen. Letters took time to write, and time to travel from the writer's door to the recipient, online dating penfriends. Each letter was a little story, a snapshot of the writer's life at that moment. In pre-internet days, "pen pals" or "pen friends" were friends who kept in touch by sending letters, written with a pen or pencil or typewriter. Writing was a way for people who lived far apart to learn about each others' lives.

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So, you’re on your phone doing your daily lazy scroll, mid work break. You’ve already checked Instagram, liked a few posts of your friends taking the piss out of influencer style captions. Of course, you’ve hit up Twitter and there are no celeb feuds brewing. You’ve replied to all your WhatsApp messages about what you’re doing this weekend. Only thing left is a little, cheeky look at your dating apps. You spot a hottie, their profile on CLiKD is pretty jokes, so you like them. Luckily, they like you and what do you know?! It’s a match. Let the chat begin… * 4 Weeks + Later… * You’re. Still. Chatting. Have you met your match in the flesh? No. Does it seem like you’re about to anytime soon? Nope. Congratulations! You may have, unwittingly, entered into a pen pal dating situation! Here are 4 signs that this might be the case and 4 reasons why it might have happened at all…

4 Signs

You’ve Been Talking For Ages

There are not really any rules about how long you should talk to someone before you meet up with them. Purely up to your discretion and comfort level. However, when it gets to a month plus, you start to wonder if it’ll happen. Firstly, at this point, you probably would’ve been talking regularly. With all that time and effort put in, you become invested. Can you really just ghost? You’re intrigued now. Will their chat hold up in person?! Maybe it’ll be worth the wait…

The investment is even higher when numbers have been exchanged. The number exchange doesn’t happen with everyone. So, when it does, you assume that you’ll at least go on a date soon. If you’re finding that even after you’ve exchanged numbers and been chatting for ages, there hasn’t been any mention of a date, then you’re entering a pen pal dating situation.

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The classics like “work is crazy at the minute” being used

over and over can get irritating.

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There’s Always An Excuse Not To Meet Up

Maybe you’ve recognised the first sign and have decided to take matters into your own hands. So, you try to subtly suggest potential date ideas, but they’re not acknowledged. Maybe you’ve outright asked when they’re free and been met with a number of excuses. The classics like “work is crazy at the minute” being used over and over can get irritating.

Even more irritating is when you’re finally asked out, then something comes up and it’s just never rescheduled, online dating penfriends, but the chat continues, online dating penfriends. Spoiler Alert: If someone really wants to meet up with you, they will make it happen. They’ll definitely reschedule and ask online dating penfriends you’re free. If they don’t seem that bothered about meeting, count it as a pen pal dating situation red flag.

They Tell You Their Darkest Secrets, Real Quick

Most people during the initial, pre-date chat keep it quite casual. Talk of favourite shows, what you do for a living etc. The heaviest question tends to be “so err, what are you looking for on here?” However, when they start spilling the beans on everything or sharing all their problems with you, a literal virtual stranger, it’s a bit much.

You can tell yourself that they’re just opening up to you online dating penfriends that’s a good thing, but really the things they’re online dating penfriends are usually reserved for mates. You’re nowhere near the ‘we’re committed and they’re sharing with me because they’re taking our relationship to the next level’ stage. Sounds like they’re looking for a friend or ‘pal’ (see what I did there?! Ok… I’ll see myself out after this) to confide in, doesn’t it?

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Another top sex dating sites flag is when the conversation isn’t really going anywhere,

but they’re still persisting with it.

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When They Message, They’re Not Really Saying Much

So, we’ve established the chat is ongoing, there’s either been no mention of a date or there’s always a reason to cancel/postpone and they may or may not have overshared repeatedly. Another red flag is when the conversation isn’t really going anywhere, but they’re still persisting with it. It’s just them giving regular updates about their day and hoping you have a nice one, until they stamp out your last bit of patience. This could be a sign of breadcrumbing too.

Another (further) sign is when they disappear for a bit and come back, still not saying much, online dating penfriends. Their messaging constantly goes from consistent to ‘I haven’t heard from them in a week, should I be worried?!’ Then, when they do message, you’re so relieved it takes you a minute to realise the message wasn’t even exciting and that you’re over this pen pal bullshit (any Good Place fans here? Nope, cool. Moving on!)

All of this can be a real dampener on things. After all, most of us are on dating apps online dating penfriends actual meet and not have to use the apps anymore, online dating penfriends. You’re not doing anything wrong if you’ve found yourself in the pen pal position, don’t worry, online dating penfriends. However, there are many reasons why anyone can end up in a pen pal dating situation. Here are 4:

4 Reasons

They’re Lonely

Look, in London or other big cities for that matter, it can be hard to make friends. We all get to an age where our friendship groups start to change. Everyone’s lives are on different trajectories. Some move to new countries, get married, online dating penfriends, have kids, start new demanding jobs or you just grow apart. Loneliness can make people do… interesting things. Including download a dating app just to have someone to talk to.

They’re Shy

Some people are dating app for nerds confident about asking people out ASAP. They see someone, they’re interested, they shoot their shot. Done. Others like to build up to it. Or they lose their nerve… a lot. Sometimes in these pen pal dating situations, you just need a little patience. If you’re not about that life, ask them out. Can’t hurt. Worst they can say is no and then you move on with your life. Simples.

They’re Bored or Juggling Multiple People

You know what else can make people do interesting things? Boredom, online dating penfriends. In the name of boredom, we have all ended up in some regrettable and some surprisingly entertaining situations. It happens. Some people like having something to do when they’re bored. Unfortunately, that could be talking to you. Try not to take it too personally, online dating penfriends, it’s not even really about you. Another option? They’re talking to multiple people and haven’t really figured out the delicate balance that is modern day dating. It’s an art form that takes practice.

They’re Already Taken

Lastly, and by no means least, they’re already in a relationship. Not one of those profiles you see where one what do we use a dating site for of the couple is crowdsourcing for a third to join them one evening. As in a ‘full on, they’re exclusive, definitely using the app behind their partner’s back’ exclusive. Why are they talking to you? Maybe they’re telling themselves if they never meet you, it’s not cheating. Or they’re keeping you ‘lined up’ as a back up plan. Quite possible they just want the ego boost of ‘even though I’m taken, people still want me and I still have options.’ Either way, not cool. If you want to be single, online dating penfriends, be single, online dating penfriends. Don’t straddle both worlds and bring innocents into it!

So, there you have it. 4 signs and 4 reasons why you’re in a pen pal dating situation. Whatever the reason, if you’re not into your current pen pal dating situation, online dating penfriends, put an end to it. Whether you decide you don’t want to talk to them anymore or you go for the whole ‘either we actually meet up or this is done’ approach, it’s up to you. If you don’t want a pen pal, then don’t have a pen pal. Period.