Ok, so eHarmony puts some cheesy ads out there that might deter you from trying it out, but if you’re tired of dating around, looking for a real connection and maybe just want to put a ring on it, you’re going to want to give it a second chance. Why? Well, eHarmony is allegedly responsible for around 4 percent of all marriages in the U.S. today. Wild, right?

So what gives eHarmony its secret sauce? We guess it has to do with the revamp of their model. Back in the day, eHarmony would put you through the wringer with a lengthy sign-up process and lame alienating questions. Today, the questionnaire is around 30 questions long and very practical. It’ll ask you how you feel about moving in with someone or how you feel about arguments.

It should be noted though that eHarmony hasn’t always been the most welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community and some users believe that it’s truly a place for the heteronormative. They’ve been working on fixing this major issue, but it seems that it hasn’t yet been totally resolved.

Tip for using eHarmony to find a long-term relationship: Use eHarmony if you are genuinely ready for commitment. Don’t be afraid to set up dates quickly and emotionally open up earlier than you normally would.

2.) Match

Match.com is a dating site that was launched in 1995, and it has been helping daters find long-term relationships ever since. Match is comforting to a lot of people because it’s so familiar and has pretty much provided the blueprint for other dating sites. Not to mention, it has worked hard to perfect its strategy over the years. There’s even a guarantee that you’ll be dating someone within six months, and if you’re not, they’ll give you six months free of charge! That’s how confident they are.

There are two factors that make Match best for long-term partnerships.

Number one is their matching algorithm. When you sign up, you will be put through a rigorous personality quiz. While it can feel a little cumbersome, know that Match is only doing its job. You’ll be asked about your basic preferences along with some gushy romantic stuff (which is important in a relationship).

Number two is that, though it’s technically a free dating site, most users end up paying $20 per month. Yeah, it’s a lot. But love is an investment you should be making for yourself, right?

Tip for using Match to find a long-term relationship: Match is known for their intense matching algorithm, so take your time with the questionnaire and try to make your profile as detailed as possible.

3.) Zoosk

For some, travel is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Zoosk takes the concept of online dating and allows users to connect internationally. But this isn’t one of those “fly me out to hookup” sites. Zoosk utilizes behavioral matching to facilitate genuine connections between folks who may live thousands of miles apart. If you want your first date to involve a plane, this app is for you.

Rather than dragging you through a tedious questionnaire, Zoosk synchs up your social media profiles to analyze your behavior. It’s a unique way to determine personality, but arguably more accurate given that it takes your actions into account.

Zoosk is a crowd favorite because it doesn’t try to distract you with any bells and whistles. It’s got a smooth, modern interface that makes international dating feel like a breeze.

Tip for using Zoosk to find a long-term relationship: Clean up your social media profile. Zoosk uses it to determine your matches. Your matches will likely be able to find your socials as well. If you come across as a player, you won’t land a serious relationship.

4.) Friend Finder

Friend Finder is one of the biggest dating communities on the Internet. It has the feel and ease of a social media platform but ultimately aims to set up romantic connections between singles. There’s a wide range of connections to be made on Friend Finder, from the flings to the wedding bells. You are more likely to meet someone who doesn’t want to commit right off the bat, but knows they want to meet someone special. Friend Finder also caters to all genders and sexualities, giving it a really warm and welcoming feel.

The users on Friend Finder tend to be in their 40s, but anyone who is 18+ is welcome to give it a shot. They also take your safety very seriously and run a tight ship as far as regulating profiles and banning fakes, catfish, and bots. You do feel like you’ve got a matchmaker on your side when you use Friend Finder to find a mate.

Because Friend Finder is more of a community than strictly a dating site, there are various ways to meet people and other ways to enjoy the site. For instance, you can take a look at their interest groups and forum pages to learn how users in the community are feeling about Friend Finder and dating in general.

Tip for using Friend Finder to find a long-term relationship: Treat this community like a social media platform rather than strictly a dating app. It will open up the possibilities for you by introducing you to more people!

5.) Bumble

There’s a lot we don’t love about Tinder. The platform allows ghosters and players to run rampant. That’s why Bumble is the perfect alternative for women seeking a serious relationship with a man.

Bumble is swipe-dating with a twist. It’s a free dating app that requires women to break the ice first. If the man doesn’t respond to the initial message within 24 hours, the match goes away. It’s one of the first dating apps to really hold daters accountable for their ability to follow through. Flakiness doesn’t survive on Bumble.

The women-message-first concept also combats those incessant creepy messages that ladies on dating apps are used to getting. While the profiles are limited and there’s no major questionnaire, the rules laid out by Bumble make it a great environment to start a long-term relationship. Oh, and there’s also an Astrology filter for the horoscope buffs.

Tip for using Bumble to find a long-term relationship: If you are a woman, reach out to all the men that you match with. Remember, they can’t get in touch with you. You need to make the first move before those matches disappear. You swiped right for a reason, right?

6.) Hinge

Many daters cite Hinge as their absolute favorite dating app. While Hinge has introduced a ton of successful couples to each other, the draw to Hinge has more to do with the fact that using the app is fun! The app was originally supposed to match you based on mutual friends you had through social media platforms. But it has evolved since then to be the ultimate icebreaker dating app.

Setting up a Hinge profile takes some time, but it’s entertaining. Once you pick your photos and basic preferences, you can choose through dozens of hilarious or serious prompts to add to the profile. One reads, “A life goal of mine is. . .” while another reads, “We’re the same type of weird if. . .” Hinge users can “heart” someone’s photo or their prompt answer. They can also comment on it, which makes initiating a conversation so much more interesting than on other dating apps.

With engaging profiles and an in-depth matching algorithm, Hinge is the cocktail party that sets the scene for long-term potential. The crowd is generally young, cool, and interested in dating. Its slogan is, “designed to be deleted,” which is kind of awesome!

Tip for using Hinge to find a long-term relationship: Add some humor to your profile by picking funny prompts. This will give your potential matches an icebreaker when they reach out to you.

7.) OKCupid

OKCupid is the woke dating app geared towards socially conscious millennials. It’s been around for a while, but in 2017, OKCupid saw a massive redesign both in aesthetics and operations. Now, it’s incredibly modern and perfect for the liberal-minded dater who is seeking a likeminded partner. With 12 gender identities and 20 sexual orientations to choose from, it’s not hard to see why.

The questionnaire helps to weed out folks who you wouldn’t get along with by asking questions like, “Is contraception morally wrong?” They also get into your sexual preferences and dealbreakers. That’s when the algorithm takes over. At first, it feels a bit like Tinder. That would make sense as the two are owned by the same company, but it takes the more in-depth serious approach that goes beyond swiping based on appearances.

One critique that OKCupid gets is the feature that allows you to message someone who you haven’t matched with yet. They won’t see that message unless you match. While it keeps creepy messages at bay, it also lends itself to a bunch of unanswered messages and a strange feeling of rejection.

Tip for using OKCupid to find a long-term relationship: Don’t bother using this application if you are ultra-conservative. You likely won’t find anyone who meshes with your views. Also, show more than you tell. In other words, pick profile photos that communicate who you are as a person.

8.) The League

If all the apps were personified, The League would be the most narcissistic. To get on the app in the first place, you must apply by submitting your LinkedIn profile, current job status, and what university you attended. So yeah, it’s a little full of itself. However, for people who think that education and job status is a dealbreaker, it’s a nice change of pace from the randomness that apps like Tinder supply.

The League allows you to be very picky with your preferences, even allowing you to select which races you prefer to see. That makes our stomachs turn a little. If you’re willing to ignore the cringeworthy-ness, The League is a pretty decent dating app. It has a high success rate, so we think it deserves a review.

Members span all age groups but tend to be on the younger side. There’s also no way for catfish to get onto this app. You must link both your Facebook and LinkedIn for approval. Unless a catfish is willing to go to extraordinary lengths to land someone, they aren’t going to slip through the cracks on these dating apps.

Tip for using The League to find a long-term relationship: The League tends to be a tough crowd and the app comes across as a little judgmental. You can ease the tension by sending a message to someone who you have something in common with. Perhaps you’ve been to their university, hometown, or have insight about their career choice.

9.) Happn

Some people believe in fate and others believe in the “Proximity Effect.” There’s a strong correlation between proximity and attraction, which Happn takes into account. Rather than setting you up with people who live in a five-mile radius from you, Happn actually matches you with someone you’ve crossed paths with in the past. It’s a neat concept in that it shows you and your match have similar habits and interests. It’s also the most convenient way to date.

We’ll be honest though, there aren’t a ton of people who use Happn, so there might be slim pickings. There have also been reports that the daters you’ve apparently “crossed paths with” are hogwash. This is coming from users who never stepped foot outside of their homes and were told they had a handful of missed connections. However, there are also folks who say the exact opposite.

Regardless of whether or not the proximity feature is a placebo, it sure makes for a nice icebreaker when you finally do go on that first date!

Tip for using Happn to find a long-term relationship: Don’t rely too heavily on the proximity feature. Try to get to know the people who you match with and then decide if you want to meet up with them!

10.) HER

Nearly all dating sites claim to be inclusive of all sexualities and genders; however, many people in the queer community don’t completely agree. Some sites just don’t feel all that welcoming or provide enough options, especially to queer women. Grindr was there for queer men, but what about the ladies? That’s where the app HER comes in. It’s a tailored dating site and community for women in the LGBTQ+ community.

According to their members (currently 4 million and counting), HER is a really fun space. Profiles can get quite detailed with the ability to put your diet preferences (like vegan) on your profile, along with your astrological sign and pronouns. There’s also an entire element of HER that doesn’t really have to do with dating but rather operates as a social media platform and shows you what queer events are going on in your area.

HER is great, but it’s not perfect. In the past, users have reported some glitches that make the user experience a bit frustrating and annoying. However, they are actively working to evolve their functionality in a positive way.

Tip for using HER to find a long-term relationship: HER is all about empowering women and LGBTQ+ dating. Mimic that energy by always shining a positive light while you are chatting with new friends or matches.

11.) Silver Singles

Dating over 50 can be quite a challenge. Many of these online dating apps focus so much energy on catering to millennials that they don’t take time to consider the older daters. Silver Singles is a dating app that’s exclusively for daters who are age 50 and above. Knowing that you’re in the company of others who are your age and looking for love can be really comforting.

Silver Singles takes matching seriously and uses a personality test to break users up into the Big Five personality traits, and then matches you accordingly. There’s an expectation on Silver Singles that the dating is taken seriously, so it’s not for the person looking for something casual. The users who are old enough to be completely over dating games that tend to be consumed by them see this as a benefit.

Tip for using Silver Singles to find a long-term relationship: Make it clear that you are seeking a long-term relationship. You can do this by posting it in your profile or by opening each chat by explaining what you want out of the app. The mature daters will appreciate the transparency.

12.) Coffee Meets Bagel

The concept behind this dating app was to set up a casual online dating experience. It’s likened to grabbing a cup of coffee with someone, but online. The vibe is meant to feel low-key, so that pressure doesn’t get in the way of your dating experience. A Reddit review actually noted that “Coffee Meets Bagel helped me find someone, which I never thought would happen because I am cripplingly introverted.” So, we know it works!

Other dating sites will throw a bunch of options at you, leaving you swiping through tons of photos or scrolling through an indefinite amount of prospects. While this can be nice, it also can deter you from really investing in one person and might make you feel overwhelmed. It’s not exactly the easiest way to make a real connection. That’s why CMB sends you seven options a day that are carefully selected based on their matching algorithm. These matches are called “bagels,” which frankly is a little strange. But hey, we’re not here to judge CMB on anything but their success rate as a dating app. To encourage followthrough, the bagels only last for a week. If you really like someone, you need to reach out.

Another reason why CMB works so well is that the algorithm takes your previous swipes into account when curating the next batch of fresh bagels for you. It learns your trends and preferences based on actual activity rather than just a questionnaire.

Tip for using Coffee Meets Bagel to find a long-term relationship: Give each “bagel” a chance. You might be used to apps that give you tons of options; however, there’s a reason why these bagels were suggested to you. Don’t be afraid to do a deep dive into each of their profiles!

13.) AdultFriendFinder

Ok, so AdultFriendFinder isn’t exactly great for finding your soulmate, but nothing is impossible! The reason it makes the list is that some people like to approach dating in a casual way before getting into anything super serious. Physical intimacy is an essential part of any relationship, and AdultFriendFinder has no problems in that department.

While millennials rely on Tinder to help them find friends-with-benefits, AdultFriendFinder caters to an online dating crowd that’s a tiny bit older. It’s sort of the Tinder for Gen X. Given that there are so many users on AdultFriendFinder, it’s nearly impossible to not find someone interested in talking to you. But be warned—AdultFriendFinder is not for the faint of heart. There’s no telling how raunchy your inbox will get.

AdultFriendFinder is an adult site, so that means explicit photos are welcome and encouraged. You won’t find that on other dating websites. In a time where isolation is more familiar than physical touch, it’s a nice change of pace.

Tip for using AdultFriendFinder to find a long-term relationship: Keep an open mind, sexually. AdultFriendFinder has a lot of raunchy undertones. By going in without judgment, you open yourself up to a world of dating potentials on this site.

14.) Plenty Of Fish

Plenty Of Fish is a popular free dating site, but they’ve been known to have just as many bots as they do genuine users, so that’s why it sits at the bottom. This doesn’t mean that POF doesn’t work. It has been known to foster a ton of successful relationships. There are even some celebs who have found love on POF. It simply might get annoying attempting to dodge the folks who aren’t real.

One of the best aspects of POF is the volume of users. They have so many. Bots aside, even if you live in a small town or rural area, you will find plenty of prospects. Most apps function best in urban cities, but POF does the job well anywhere. Another thing we love is that POF, and all features like unlimited messaging, is totally free.

Because there are so many daters on POF looking for all sorts of relationships, POF has implemented a pretty advanced search feature that allows you to whittle down the crowd. The quality of daters doesn’t seem to be as top-notch as some other apps on this list, but there are definitely some catches who make their way onto the site.

Tip for using Plenty Of Fish to find a long-term relationship: POF is known for having a ton of users. With that in mind, be selective with who you decide to reach out to. Too many options won’t help you land that soulmate you’re after.

With the ease and convenience of dating apps, dating is becoming easier for some but more challenging. Regardless of whether or not you find it easy, there is one thing we all have in common. It is getting hard to tell who is on the app for what reasons. So, what are the best apps for finding long-term relationships? 

The best dating apps to use when looking for serious relationships are Hinge, Eharmony, Bumble, Elite Singles, Tinder, and Match.com. With that in mind, it is essential to remember that you should still specify what you are looking for in your bio.

This article will start by talking about the six best dating apps for serious relationships. We will then move on to the best dating apps for college students, the best dating apps for people in their 30s, the best international dating apps, and a whole lot more. So, keep reading.

Before we even get into this list, I need to mention something significant. Just because you are looking for a dating app geared towards serious relationships, it does not mean you should not have fun. Why do I say this?

Well, let’s say you get a date with somebody who is also looking for a serious relationship, that’s great. However, it doesn’t always mean that they are the right person for you.

And so, you might realize this very quickly into the date. It happens more than you think. Most dates do not lead to anything serious.

If you go there with a mindset of “this has to be a serious relationship or at least turn into one,” it might be a problem.

The date might go wrong, and you can miss out on a great night with a great person. They might not just be the long-term material that you are looking for. 

Let’s get into the best six dating apps for serious relationships with all of that being said.

Hinge

This one slips under a lot of people’s radars. However, it is fully geared towards people who want serious relationships. The app itself is straightforward to use and has a simplified design. This makes it friendly, pleasant, and easy to browse through profiles.

When we say that hinge is geared towards serious relationships, we mean it. This made it first on this list because it says, “this app is designed to be deleted when you open the app.

Right from the start, the developers tell you that they want you to match with people with whom you want to spend a long time.

This app used to be highly rated on the app stores. Unfortunately, it took a slight knock when they added a feature called “stand out.”

This focuses primarily on attractive people. For some people, this might be great, but for your average user, they don’t like it. Remember, though, it is something you can look past. 

Hinge has a free version and a premium version. Now, unlike most dating apps that don’t allow you to message people on their free versions, Hinge will enable you to do just about everything to a limited extent for free.

Hinge’s pricing starts at $19.99 per month. However, if you go for the three or six-month subscriptions, it costs $39.99 and $59.99. Is that expensive?

Well, because the app is designed to be deleted and your chances of finding a serious relationship are so high, I say the price is worth it.

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Eharmony

eHarmony has been around for about two decades. Yep, that is before apps even became a thing. It was started in 2000 and has recently upgraded to include mobile apps, which is a nice touch.

It is almost impossible to compete without a dedicated app these days.

Eharmony has been known to cater to those looking for serious long-term relationships for the longest time. The app uses a very technical matchmaking system that matches people down to the t.

Although this might not seem like a lot, eHarmony in 2013 ranked as the number one dating site and has created 4% of all marriages inside the United States. As I said, that number may seem small,but it is pretty significant.

eHarmony has about 10 million users. So, if you are concerned that they might not match you with anybody based on your preferences, I wouldn’t worry about that.

Ten million people is a significant amount, and there is bound to be somebody with enough in common with you.

The pricing on eHarmony is quite tricky. The one-month plan goes for $59.95, whereas the 3-month program goes for $29.95 a month.

Finally, a six-month plan will cost you $29.90 per month. That might be a little bit steep for some people. However, you can browse the app for free and see if you like it before diving in with your cash.

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Bumble

Bumble is an app geared towards male and female interactions. With that being said, I’m sorry, ladies, you will have to make the first move on this app.

The creators behind Bumble saw the problem of men always having to make the first move. And so, they created this app that changes that dynamic completely.

As much fun as that is, the app is geared towards long-term relationships, and it matches you with people, or at least shows people in your area starting as close as possible and then spreading out, much like Tinder.

I must add that Bumble can be rather harsh. It doesn’t matter how good-looking you are or what you are standing next to in your photos.

You have to make your first photo catch the eye of somebody.

I think this has to do with women having to make the first interaction. So, they are more careful with who they match with.

So, guys, make sure that your photo is not blurry and try to make your profile as enjoyable as possible.

Bumble does have a free version. It also has a premium version that costs $24.99 a month.

Also, you can instead use bumble coins if you use the application for a limited amount of time.

You can start using coins for as little as $1.99. The coins allow you to perform premium actions on a small scale.

I wouldn’t necessarily say that you need Bumble premium. However, if you live in a very busy or dense area such as a major city, it could be worth it because you compete against many other singles.

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Elite Singles

This app is a bit different from others, and it is all in the name, elite singles. The majority of users on this app are pretty educated, with over 85% holding a degree.

This does not mean that the people on this app are snobbish; it does mean that they are looking for other like-minded people.

If you have a degree and want to find somebody with a similar educational background, then this is the app you can use to find a serious long-term relationship.

The people on this app tend to be down-to-earth. They generally do not have a problem socializing with people who aren’t as highly educated as they are. 

However, with that being said, it is essential to remember that the people on this app use it because it promises to match them with someone like themselves. So, keep that in mind before joining.

It might sound tempting to some to use this app to find financially well-off somebody. Allow me to warn you that the people on this app are young enough so that they are not going to try and be anybody’s sugar daddy or sugar mommy.

Also, it is essential to remember that just because somebody is highly educated, it does not mean that they are swimming in money.

Elite Singles has an extremely high success rate, with over 2500 people finding love on the app every month. I guess it is because the people on this app have so much in common.

Elite Singles has a premium version that costs around $29 per month. Please remember that this price is subject to change. So, please keep that in mind if the price is different when you get onto the app.

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Tinder

Ok, I know Tinder is mainly used for young users. However, that is not always the case. Tinder is by far one of the most popular dating sites ever released. Its ease-of-use and swiping system was a revolution in the dating app industry.

Yes, a lot of people do use Tinder just for short-term flings. With that being said, every day I use Tinder, I see profiles that clearly state they are in it for the long-term prospect.

While you could argue that people just put “no casual dating” and “no one-night stands” in their bio because they are worried that friends and family might see their profile.

Also, I know that many people do not admit to meeting each other on Tinder.

That might be through the fear of reaction. After all, Tinder does have a reputation that most other apps do not have.

You can specify what you are looking for on Tinder, and that is the beauty of it. You can state that you are looking for a long-term relationship, and you are more likely to get matched with like-minded people.

Also, because Tinder is a location-based app, meeting up with your date shouldn’t be too much of a problem in terms of travel.

Most people use the accessible version of Tinder. There is also a premium version called “Tinder Plus.”

The pricing for this is a little bit tricky and quite biased, in my opinion. For anyone under 30 years old, you can expect to pay around $10 a month, and if you are over 30, you can expect to pay $20 per month.

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Match.com

Match.com has been hailed as one of the best online dating sites and apps available. It has an extremely high success rate, with 11% of users saying they have found the one they love on this app.

Match.com is better for long-term relationships because while the app works like Tinder, you get a lot more information.

This app encourages its users to give as much information about themselves as possible. Other than that, it uses location-based matchmaking.

In terms of pricing, it is one of the more expensive apps out there at $41.99 per month. However, you can do most of what you can do on the app for free. This includes creating a profile, viewing profiles, sending winks, and sending messages to users.

Nothing works as well as the premium version. It just gives you so many more options. So, if you are serious about getting into a long-term relationship via online dating apps, go for the premium. If you are just casually thinking about it, maybe $41 is not an excellent value for others.

Download Match.com Here

Final Thoughts

Be sure to check out our other lists for dating apps that might be for you.

Best Dating Apps For Serious Relationships

Best Dating Apps For 30-Year-Olds

Best Dating Apps For Married People

To close off this article, I want to tell you to be safe. Most people do not have bad intentions. However, when you go on a date, let somebody know where you will be and who you will meet. I know I’m closing this article off with a bit of a bummer, but I think it is important to mention this.